Yikes! Those are two words that just don’t go together. Since we recently had a very contentious election, we need to remember what Thanksgiving is about. It’s a time for gratitude, family and reflection. As we gather around the table this year, let’s not let politics threaten the peace and kindness this holiday is meant to bring to our families.

Thanksgiving’s Political Roots

The actual Thanksgiving holiday was originally established by President Abraham Lincoln in 1863 during the Civil War. This was also a deeply divided time in American history. In his proclamation, Lincoln called for a day of “Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens.”

Today, Thanksgiving remains a holiday of unity, even as we face our own modern political divides.

Politics at the Dinner Table: A Recipe for Tension?

Thanksgiving dinners often bring family and friends together with diverse views. While differences can be beautiful, it can also bring disagreements. Prolific did a study of how people feel about the holidays after the 2024 election.

• Rising Family Tensions: 22% of Americans report increased polarization within their families following the 2024 election, and among younger voters (ages 18-24), that figure jumps to 36%.
• Thanksgiving Concerns: One-quarter of young Americans worry that political discussions could lead to arguments at Thanksgiving.
• Skipping Family Gatherings: 20% of respondents plan to skip traditional gatherings, opting instead to spend Thanksgiving alone, avoid family interactions, or even leave the country to sidestep uncomfortable conversations.
• Dissatisfaction with Leadership: 62% of Americans express disapproval of the current government’s record, while over 58% hold an unfavorable opinion of Donald Trump.
• Strong Conviction Among Voters: Despite the divisions, 96% of Americans feel confident in their voting decisions with no regrets.

But does this mean politics should be off-limits at Thanksgiving? Not necessarily. If handled respectfully, political conversations can provide insight and bridge divides.

How to Navigate Political Conversations During Thanksgiving

• Start with Gratitude
  • Focus on what unites everyone at the table. Share what you are thankful for, steering conversation toward positivity and try not to dive into heavier topics like political debates.
• Set Boundaries
  • Agree as a group on whether political topics are on or off the table for the day. This can help prevent unintended consequences.
• Listen to Understand, Not to Argue
  • If politics do come up, approach with an open mind. Listening is just as important as sharing your views. Sometimes it’s better to agree to disagree and move on.
• Use Humor Cautiously
  • Lighthearted humor can diffuse tension but be careful to avoid offending anyone.
• Know When to Pivot
  • If the conversation becomes heated, change the subject. Topics like sports, movies or funny family memories can quickly shift the mood away from politics and Thanksgiving.

Conclusion

Thanksgiving reminds us of the value of family and friends. The holiday can be an opportunity to practice empathy and remember that at our core, we all want what is best for our communities and loved ones – even if we differ on how to achieve it. So, as you pass the turkey or mashed potatoes, remember that avoiding politics at Thanksgiving tables ensures gratitude and kindness are the real stars of the table.

Happy Thanksgiving!

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